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15 Oct 2011

It’s not about being perfect


“In distant time, everyone will realize that it is not about being perfect; it's about being truly happy.” This phrase could be associated in my personality, in my idea and in my expression. I learned it in a very tough way. In my 20 years of existence here in the world of reality, I’m always get affected by negative comments of other people. Criticisms are always in my way, the way I look, dressed up, the way I talk, on how I deal with other people, and a lot more. But then I just realized, why should I get affected to those negative judgements? I just listen to what they've got to say and interpret it as a constructive criticism. By then, I think that other people shouldn't be telling you who you are; instead you should be telling them who you are because it is you who knows yourself best. You know yourself more than anyone else. I strongly believe that it is about knowing your real self, accept and improve it that makes you truly happy. You may not be perfect in your outer self, but you can be near perfect with your inner self, a good heart is the one that truly counts. Even if you’re not perfect, or even close to it, you have to remember that there are many things that cannot be perfect without you. I don't know how to become perfect because the answer lies in other people's eyes but I know how I can be happy because the answer lies deep within me.


Never take too much care and love on someone


You should learn not to take too much care and love on someone, because you won’t be able to stand the pain when they start avoiding you. It’s like you’ve invested too much and end up gaining nothing. When your relationship ends, you’ll be having a hard time coping up with your lose. You’ll feel like a loser, dumb and pathetic. Save something for yourself. So when that person leaves you, there is still something left for you to stand up and save yourself from pain. Don t show so much of love to anyone because it creates a non curable pain. Don't depend too much on anyone in this world, because even your own shadow leaves you when you are in darkness. You'll never know how long people will stay with you, or how fast they will leave you. Always remember, people meet to part. Never hold on to someone that much. Life's just too unpredictable.